Monday, June 8, 2009

Reaching Out

Last night we hosted a little gathering to celebrate the college graduations of a fabulous foursome ~the Lovely Daughter and three of her friends from Montessori days. All of the girls, as well as all of their brothers and sisters, attended a small Montessori school through the eighth grade, forming friendships that have weathered the years and graduating in tiny classes of children who knew each other almost as siblings. I think there were 13 students in the Lovely Daughter's graduating class, and 15 in her brothers' class two years earlier. Small but cohesive groups, as Chicago Son's funeral sadly demonstrated, when young people who had met long ago over the pink tower showed up from New York, Oregon, and Toronto, along with teachers who had known them since they were three years old.

It has been such a delight to watch our girls grow into the wonderful young women they have become, and even more of a pleasure to see their friendships sustain and strengthen them through three different high schools and five different colleges. They are so appreciative of each other's gifts and differences, and they have so much fun together. And they have offered us as well the gift of friendship with a terrific group of parents, all of them (us) just quirky enough to seek out something of an alternative education for our kids and stick with it for as long as it was available.

Last night ~ sitting out in the yard as darkness fell and candles were lit, eating grilled chicken and strawberries and ice cream, all with people who have been friends to all of our children throughout their educational adventures ~ was a good first try for us, the very first attempt we have made to host anything at all in our home since Chicago Son died. I missed him every second, but I know he would have approved the laughter and memories of days gone by.

8 comments:

Purple said...

While it is still hard...big step...big, big step...glad you ventured out to give the party.

Karen and Joe said...

I'm sure that took a lot of strength, but what a lovely thing to do for your daughter. I'm sure it meant a lot to her and the others to be together again.

Carol said...

Big giant step forward within the coccoon of your own home surrounded by those who love and know you. Sounds like a lovely evening. And I love that you have the photo of the pink tower. How old were they when they built it?

Daisy said...

Hey, my daughter went to Montessori from 3 yrs old through kindergarten. We had to do public school after that as that particular school didn't go beyond kindergarten. It was a good time though.

Sounds like a wonderful time with good friends for you all last night.

Mich

Rev SS said...

So thankful that your family has the blessings of these lifelong friends to share the journey with.

Cynthia said...

I am so proud of you, and your son would definitely approve.

Ruth Hull Chatlien said...

This is so moving to read.

And I delighted to read about your daughter and her friends and their appreciation for each other.

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