Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Christmas Message

I just posted this on my usual blog, but in case someone comes here and needs to read it:

It's three days before Christmas and I've just learned of the suicide this past week of another young man in his early 20s. I just want to say . . . it's hard. So impossibly hard. I am not sure that there is a more searing form of pain in this life. Although I was able to write of hope in my blog tonight, we are leaving town tomorrow for the third Christmas in a row, and I expect to be be scattering ashes into the Atlantic on Christmas Day. I am writing this so that you know, if you are a parent or other loved one reading this because your Christmas season has just been ripped away, along with the rest of your life, that there are others who accompany you. We may grow into hope, and into lives we never expected or wanted, but we remain heartbroken, and we know, as you do, about things no one wants to know. There is a light that the darkness does not overcome, but the darkness is very dark indeed. May you know that the love to which you once gave birth still flows outward and envelops your child, and may you be surrounded by people who will hang onto to you through the darkness.


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Karen said...

never a more beautiful post.

Terri said...

oh dear...amen to this prayer.

Anonymous said...

amen, as all the others noted.
please leave this open. I (among others) visit when I need to be among words like yours. Your gift is amazing.

thank you.